Posted by Sadie from ? (160.129.27.22) on Tuesday, February 11, 2003 at 6:39PM :
In Reply to: you don't understand me at all posted by Sadie from ? (160.129.27.22) on Tuesday, February 11, 2003 at 6:34PM :
: I don't want to pride myself for them - I'm not anyone's savior, & I don't want to be.
xxx In other words, I don't want to *pity* people. I want to be equal with them, & I want to care for them as equals, not as underlings who need me for my help. It seems that by pitying & treating other people as underlings desperate for help, one is actually stripping those people of their pride & their ability to recognize their own self-sufficiencies.
-- Sadie
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