hmmmmm...

Posted by Lilly from ? (160.129.27.22) on Tuesday, July 16, 2002 at 7:52PM :

In Reply to: Re: Strong identity posted by panch from pool0533.cvx25-bradley.dialup.earthlink.net (209.179.218.23) on Tuesday, July 16, 2002 at 12:32PM :

You didn't put me through sheer hell. But, while we're on the subject, let's consider the ruthlessness of making someone a scapegoat... & then excusing it as "tough love" or pretending that it's for the person's own good. This whole bit about "making" someone stronger is bullshit. No one can "make" anyone do anything. Not even a psychiatrist. Reform, or change, *always* comes from within. Anything imposed on someone else is violence.

-- Lilly
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Follow Ups:

• Up Yours! - panch 8:06PM 07/16/2002 () (13)
  • on "tough love" - Lilly 8:58PM 07/16/2002 () (10)
    • Try "tough shit" - panch 1:58AM 07/17/2002 () (9)
      • look, silly, - Lilly 9:55AM 07/17/2002 () (8)
        • Re: look, silly, - panch 10:27AM 07/17/2002 () (1)
          • Re: look, silly, - Lilly 12:03PM 07/17/2002 () (0)
        • furthermore - Lilly 10:04AM 07/17/2002 () (5)
          • Re: furthermore - panch 10:36AM 07/17/2002 () (4)
            • what? - Lilly 11:37AM 07/17/2002 () (3)
              • Re: what? - panch 8:08PM 07/17/2002 () (0)
              • a few more things... - Lilly 12:30PM 07/17/2002 () (1)
                • Re: a few more things... - panch 8:18PM 07/17/2002 () (0)
  • you choose to read... - Lilly 8:34PM 07/16/2002 () (1)
    • Re: you choose to read... - panch 2:07AM 07/17/2002 () (0)

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